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wkw427
6th April 2010, 12:19 AM
Alright, I am not romantically involved with this girl, I just know her and we are friends.


I know this girl through msn, she is only 14. She is pretty religions and conservative. Anyway, sometime last week she "met this person" and has "fallen in love". She is 14 and he is 18. She lives in Costa Rica and he lives in Washington.

Now, only the other night when we were talking (this was last week), she said cybering was wrong and she'd never do it. Well, the day after she was cybering all day and wouldn't talk to anyone.
Now that is apparently all she does.

Anyway, I feel a genuine concern for her, because I know that nothing good can come from cybering with someone five years your senior who lives in another hemisphere...

Oh RWP, what am I to do?

Twi
6th April 2010, 12:35 AM
Nothing? It's not like you can really do much aside from telling her to stop.

Or you can be like me and tell her she's a bad *insert religion*.

I pull it on my overly Christian friend when he pisses me off. "You're being a bad Christian!" And he stops whatever he's doing. :P

Kaiser
6th April 2010, 12:45 AM
Tell her how is not gonna work.

Also btw, when I saw the thread I thought it was actually Whyme looking for love advice.

wkw427
6th April 2010, 12:46 AM
I know better then to come to an internet forum for love help :p
Thanks. Now I need to catch her at a time her status isn't "busy"...

DarkJinjo
6th April 2010, 12:48 AM
Tell her cybering is stupid and it is for losers who couldn't have real sex if they tried. Also, tell her long distance relationships never work.

TRBB
6th April 2010, 01:19 AM
I know this girl through msn, she is only 14. She is pretty religions and conservative. Anyway, sometime last week she "met this person" and has "fallen in love". She is 14 and he is 18. She lives in Costa Rica and he lives in Washington.

Some random 18-year-old guy meeting up with a 14-year-old girl? Sounds like a desperate guy trying to trick her to giving him some "puntang".

Tell her cybering is stupid and it is for losers who couldn't have real sex if they tried. Also, tell her long distance relationships never work.

^ This.

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 01:29 AM
You accuse the man of being a pedophile and give the girl to me.

Cooki-Cooki
6th April 2010, 01:39 AM
Call Chris Hansen.

Siege
6th April 2010, 01:49 AM
You stop meddling in other people's affairs and let me cyber with my girl.

DarthConker
6th April 2010, 02:05 AM
Cccoooooooosssssttttttaaaaa Reeheeeeccaaaaaaaa!!!!!!

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 02:05 AM
You stop meddling in other people's affairs and let me cyber with my girl.According to your profile, you're only 16... which means that you posed as a younger member on the RWP so we could think that you were chillens like us so you could trick us and kidnap us. You sick, sick man. But wait? Why wouldn't you lie to the girl? Because you really are 16 and you just like ****ing with people. You sick, sick man!

Siege
6th April 2010, 02:14 AM
According to your profile, you're only 16... which means that you posed as a younger member on the RWP so we could think that you were chillens like us so you could trick us and kidnap us. You sick, sick man. But wait? Why wouldn't you lie to the girl? Because you really are 16 and you just like ****ing with people. You sick, sick man!

You, sir, are contradicting yourself.

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 02:30 AM
You, sir, are contradicting yourself.No sir, it is YOU who is contradicting themself!!

Siege
6th April 2010, 02:47 AM
No sir, it is YOU who is contradicting HIMself!!

Your arguments are now void. Good day, sir.

Oz the Gay and Powerful
6th April 2010, 04:08 AM
Your arguments are now void. Good day, sir.

Owned.

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 04:32 AM
Your arguments are now void. Good day, sir.My argument is void? You're the one who goes around saying they're 16 and 18 at the same time. Plus, I just used "them self" because I wasn't sure if you were lying about your gender as well. I would say "itself" but it made you sound inhuman, and it would make me sound like a dick.

Owned.
If I was owned, I'd probably be in the kitchen or on the bed, not on the computer.

Chicken Eater 40652
6th April 2010, 12:29 PM
This thread is now about Super_Nintendo6.

Oh wait..it already is.

Itxi
6th April 2010, 12:31 PM
I wouldn't say that long-distance relationships can never work. I think that they can provided both people put enough effort in.

But what she's doing, that's not really a relationship. I would say it can't hurt if she doesn't expect much else out of it but the fact that she's so young is just disgusting, and it could be quite harmful. Nothing much you can do if you only know her online other than warning her though.

Chicken Eater 40652
6th April 2010, 12:35 PM
Nothing much you can do if you only know her online other than warning her though.

I think he knows her irl.

Itxi
6th April 2010, 12:51 PM
I think he knows her irl.

I know this girl through msn

Nope.

wkw427
6th April 2010, 12:56 PM
I think he knows her irl.

Nope, only through msn

Chicken Eater 40652
6th April 2010, 12:59 PM
Nope, only through msn

O K.

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 02:59 PM
This thread is now about Super_Nintendo6.

Oh wait..it already is.I feel special.

wkw427
6th April 2010, 03:08 PM
Super_Nintendo6 is now a 14 year old girl who cybers.

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 03:18 PM
Super_Nintendo6 is now a 14 year old girl who cybers.Do I have boobs?

Hey, I'm Grump
6th April 2010, 03:26 PM
Do I have boobs?

Saggy.

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 04:16 PM
Saggy.****. Well, if that's the case, then I can confirm you that I, Super_Nintendo6, am indeed a male.

Hey, I'm Grump
6th April 2010, 04:23 PM
****. Well, if that's the case, then I can confirm you that I, Super_Nintendo6, am indeed a male.

Indeed, you just weigh 500 pounds.

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 04:25 PM
Indeed, you just weigh 500 pounds.I know. Having all that much muscle is amazing. :D

DarthConker
6th April 2010, 04:43 PM
I know. Having all that much muscle is amazing. :D
Actually, your 'pecs' are really just saggy man-tits. You're welcome.

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 05:04 PM
Actually, your 'pecs' are really just saggy man-tits. You're welcome.But there are only nipples on two of them, and those are my real man-tits, ergo the "pecs" can't be man-tits. Plus, they are hard, not saggy, my "pecs", anyways.

wkw427
6th April 2010, 05:07 PM
If they aren't man-tits, you are an insect with six boobs

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 06:05 PM
If they aren't man-tits, you are an insect with six boobs But I only have two nipples.

Hey, I'm Grump
6th April 2010, 06:31 PM
But I only have two nipples.

....Are you listening to yourself right now?

Solid Snix
6th April 2010, 06:39 PM
....Are you listening to yourself right now?No, but I am reading myself. What was this thread about again?

wkw427
7th April 2010, 12:53 AM
I know this person over msn, I've known her for a year. Almost more then a year I think. Anyway, she decided to play an april fools joke on me.

She is pretty religious and is young, not even legal to drive.

Anyway, she started talking about how she would never cyber or do anything "wrong". well, apparently last week she met this guy and started to cyber with him. This is part of the joke.

I was truly her friend, and I honest to god cared for her, warning her that things like that are wrong (cyber sex IS wrong), they never work out, and she is just going to have bad things happen to her. The "guy" she met was 18 by the way.

Anyway, she told me she is getting married. This is getting out of hand now. I truly care for her, kind of like a big brother, I try to tell her it is wrong, but then she suddenly pulls the APRIL FOOLS!!! HAHA!

Well, her reasoning for this is that she tested our friendship. What friendship? Where I come from, friends don't lie to their friends, friends CARE about what their friends think, and most importantly, they don't need to test their friends.

I admit that insults were thrown, mainly after she said APRIL FOOLS!

But I'm sorry that you had to break this friendship. You lied to me for over a year about being my friend. Apparently where you come from, friends don't look out for friends, or care about their friends.

Am I right? Friends look out for other friends and don't lie to each other. Friends don't have to test their friendship..

Zachary
7th April 2010, 01:01 AM
Honestly man, I don't know, that's a pretty ****ed up joke.

A while ago, an internet friend of mine died. Unfortunately, a few months later, I found out she was alive. I continued to speak with her until I found out how much of a bitch she turned into.

I'd just tell your friend here never to pull that kind of shit again and to have a little more regard for you, considering you seem to care a lot about her.

wkw427
7th April 2010, 01:04 AM
Honestly man, I don't know, that's a pretty ****ed up joke.

A while ago, an internet friend of mine died. Unfortunately, a few months later, I found out she was alive. I continued to speak with her until I found out how much of a bitch she turned into.

I'd just tell your friend here never to pull that kind of shit again and to have a little more regard for you, considering you seem to care a lot about her.

Thanks. Perhaps it turned out for the better :\

Still, she tore me to- I had enough fun with Twi with the portal song damnit, I feel like shit now

Twi
7th April 2010, 01:35 AM
As they burned it hurt because...

you were so angry with her?

Hey, I'm Grump
7th April 2010, 06:45 AM
As they burned it hurt because...

you were so angry with her?

I was so happy for you.

wkw427
7th April 2010, 11:33 AM
I knew I wouldn't of gotten serious help here >.>

Hey, I'm Grump
7th April 2010, 01:29 PM
I knew I wouldn't of gotten serious help here >.>

It's a Gaming fansite. You might wanna try the Dr. Phil community.

DekuScrubby
7th April 2010, 01:54 PM
I knew I wouldn't of gotten serious help here >.>

Fact is there's not a lot you can do. Since you say you know her through MSN, I assume you don't know her personally, so she's not particularly inclined to listen to you if you tell her to stop speaking to someone else on MSN. The best you can do is try to appeal to her conservative side or something, or make sure she knows she's contradicting herself. Tell her gawd and Jesus will hate her for it.

wkw427
7th April 2010, 02:31 PM
The thing is, even when I said "I don't want to talk about it anymore" she poked me into talking about it. The whole thing was an outright lie anyway.

wkw427
7th April 2010, 11:21 PM
Friendship canned. She got on messenger and started to inslut me. No, I didn't make a typo there.


It is quite sad that I had to loose a friend due to immaturity and stupidity. I won't reveal her name, just what she said to me.

Her:
U want people to hate me?
You promised MC wasnt going to be in this
Yet you hit it again

Me:
so? you hurt me

Her:
Yeah **** you
go crying to your Mama
"I hurt you"
"I'm gonna humiliate her"
"I made a man promise"
"But oh now I am not, she hurt me"

Me:
friends dont lie to friends and dont have to test their friendship

Her:
And go do little thing
Aren't you high enough to get over this?
'cuz I am totally over it.

Me:
no, i am not

Her:
like seriously.

Me:
you hurt me. i dont even know if we are friends now
or if we ever were
were we?>

Her:
Oh you told Zydron?
**** you
Go to hell seriously
Just get away from my life
You were always nosy
And now you are trying to drag me
But you won't
You are just being a whiny *****

Me:
done yet?

Her:
Yes I am done, and you know what, I am over this, I am over MC. I am

over it all. Thank you for ruining everything, wkw. You truly are a

*****. You have no friends, no life, nothing. So when you met a girl

who was nice enough to chat with you and don't complain with your

high ego and your diva attacks, you like think you can put your nose

in things she does YET she doesn't tell you to. This was not a test

in the way you think it is, it was a test to see how far your nose

could go to and where you could go, and I honestly did not believe

the final result. So, goodbye and farewell. I am gonna go eat but I

just want you to know that you're doing a huge drama for no reason,

as I was, indeed, your friend for awhile, then you had your diva

attacks, and ruined it.
You can forgive all you want for yourself, but I won't. I am over it,

I am over you since a long long time, and I am not going to keep on

going with this.
In fact, I gotta go eat.
So, if you want, reply, but I will only come back within 15 minutes.

Me:
alright then. you do know i really did care about you. if i was

getting nosy, you should of told me instead of do such an immature

thing. don't bother replying to this, because i am going to block you

and post this on the forums. im not going to let them know who you

are, i am just going to let them know what you said. and if you do

happen to remove it, it would be a clearn flag that you are behin
behind it. goodbye


Instead of talking this out like regular people, and telling me that you didn't like what I was doing, you instead had to pull an immature stunt.A pity, really.

If anyone wants to know who this person is, I'lll tell you through PM. Not in public though

Madous
7th April 2010, 11:25 PM
There's a 4 year difference in their age. If they're in the USA, that's illegal.

wkw427
7th April 2010, 11:38 PM
You didn't read the post above yours, did you?